GENDER PERSPECTIVE

In the Java community , since young boys and girls are treated differently . Son asked to be a true man while her daughter has always reminded to take care of politeness .
Son discouraged showed emotion while girls are forbidden from being aggressive . Son of Man will be invited to assist the parents like gardening or an artisan and girls are taught to help parents make homework like tidying , cooking and so on .
In Javanese society , men are considered a source of strength in a society. Position the head of the community such as the appointment of Mr. Trenches must be held by men . By faith , men were more mature and not by emotion than women. Soul of a woman who is sensitive will cause them to become emotional in making a decision .
The nature of the men who are stronger also makes them very important people and served as head of the family . The strength of the physical properties of a well-built physique bloom , strong, hard and strong masculine be an important contributor to their duty as seekers living. They support their families and take care of all the welfare and security of his family .
Man of the Java look tough from outside but really soft from the inside. They will not publicly scold their children rather through his wife. Only through the eyes or squinting eye is capable of delivering the message to the child - a son.
Female Javanese people are being socially weak - soft and love - love their husbands and their children . So simple children friendly and affectionate mother than father . A wife is obedient to her husband. They not only loyal but also honored husband .
Husband and wife is the backbone for managing the household . The attitude of the weak - gentle and polite - manners suited to manage household tasks including cleaning, cooking and house cleaning .
Women Java associated with the nature of high sacrifice . They are willing to sacrifice whatever it takes to preserve the welfare and dignity of their families. They will be waiting for her husband to return from work patiently . When the husband returned , they will be treated with love.
Java adage states that " Heaven lies under the feet of her husband ." There's no point even as high as any practices performed by a wife if they do not obey or ignore the responsibility of their husbands and children . Especially if they disobey or rebel against her husband.


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